This might sound a little confusing, but let me elaborate a little bit on what the title is suggesting.
The main principle of sex life is that it is so not like what you see on TV. It is not just something that is not evolving or changing. It exactly the opposite! And that is why it is important that you aim for better sex each time.
You see, the thing is, when two people meet, they are usually not compatible in terms of sex. But that does not mean that they cannot change it. And why? Well, there are many reasons, firstly, good sex is important for your relationship. Although many people pretend that sex is not an important thing, the truth is, that it is. A good sex life improves your well being and your relationship.
Secondly, it is a natural thing to do, just like you are improving your relationship and working on it, you should also be working on your sex life.
Thirdly, if you get stuck in a routine then you get bored. And believe me, you will get bored pretty fast. So, if you want your relationship to last, then you should definitely work on making your sex life perfect. Well, if not perfect then at least better.
So, instead of giving up, talk to your partner and share your fantasies in order to make your sex life awesome for both of you. Nevertheless, do not force yourself into doing anything you do not geel comfortable doing. Remember, it is all about compromising and sharing. Communication is the most important thing. Without it, you would not be able to actually move forward.
Well, it is all in your hands. Just do not listen to what other people are saying and never stop trying. Many people are just bragging and not telling the truth. So, do not let them discourage you!